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Bohemian wedding readings

Bohemian ceremonies tend to make their own weather — mismatched chairs, hand-lettered vows, a friend playing something on a guitar somewhere. The reading wants to sit inside that: unhurried, a little wild, unafraid of feeling.

These are the readings we recommend for bohemian weddings and anyone writing their own rulebook on the day.

Bohemian readings we love

  1. 01Portrait of Anne Sexton, 1928 ~ 1974
    Admonitions to a Special Person
    by Anne Sexton, 1928 ~ 1974
    To love another is something like prayer and can't be planned.
    Read the full poem
  2. 02Portrait of John O'Donohue, 1956 ~ 2008
    For a new beginning
    by John O'Donohue, 1956 ~ 2008
    The delight when your courage kindled and out you stepped onto new ground
    Read the full poem
  3. 03Portrait of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861
    How do I love thee
    by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861
    if God choose I shall but love thee better after death
    Read the full poem
  4. 04Portrait of Walt Whitman, 1819 ~ 1892
    How long we were fool'd
    by Walt Whitman, 1819 ~ 1892
    We have voided all but our own freedom, all but our own joy
    Read the full poem
  5. 05Portrait of Rumi, 1207 ~ 1273
    Ideas of right and wrong
    by Rumi, 1207 ~ 1273
    Let the beauty we love be what we do
    Read the full poem
  6. 06Portrait of Henry Dumas, 1934 ~ 1968
    Love Song
    by Henry Dumas, 1934 ~ 1968
    On hands and knees the ocean begs up the beach, then falls at your feet.
    Read the full poem
  7. 07Portrait of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861
    Love, mere love
    by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861
    Let temple burn, or flax and an equal light leaps in the flames from cedar plank or weed. And love is fire.
    Read the full poem
  8. 08Portrait of Mary Oliver, 1935 ~ 2019
    Mysteries, yes
    by Mary Oliver, 1935 ~ 2019
    Let me keep company, always, with those who say 'look' and laugh in astonishment and bow their heads.
    Read the full poem
  9. 09Portrait of Robert Browning, 1812 ~ 1889
    Now
    by Robert Browning, 1812 ~ 1889
    When ecstasies uptmost we clutch at the core
    Read the full poem
  10. 10Portrait of Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    On Love
    by Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    Let love be a moving sea between the shores of your souls
    Read the full poem
  11. 11Portrait of Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    On marriage
    by Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    Be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night
    Read the full poem
  12. 12Portrait of Walt Whitman, 1819 ~ 1892
    Song of the Open Road
    by Walt Whitman, 1819 ~ 1892
    I give you myself before preaching or law
    Read the full poem
  13. 13Portrait of W.B. Yeats, 1865 ~ 1939
    Song of Wandering Aengus
    by W.B. Yeats, 1865 ~ 1939
    We will pluck til times and times are done, the silver apples of the moon, the golden apples of the sun
    Read the full poem
  14. 14Portrait of William Shakespeare, 1564 ~ 1616
    Sonnet 116
    by William Shakespeare, 1564 ~ 1616
    If this be error and upon me proved, I never writ, nor no man ever loved
    Read the full poem
  15. 15Portrait of Rumi, 1207 ~ 1273
    The Beauty we love
    by Rumi, 1207 ~ 1273
    The moment I heard my first love story I went looking for you
    Read the full poem
  16. 16Portrait of Maya Angelou, 1928 ~ 2014
    Touched by an angel
    by Maya Angelou, 1928 ~ 2014
    Love costs all we are and will ever be, but it is only love that will set us free.
    Read the full poem
  17. 17Portrait of J.R.R. Tolkien, 1892 ~ 1973
    We are young
    by J.R.R. Tolkien, 1892 ~ 1973
    We have become as one, deep rooted in the soil of Life and tangled in the sweet growth
    Read the full poem

Choosing your reading

What makes a reading work at a bohemian wedding?

Bohemian ceremonies give you more permission than almost any other setting — to be surprising, image-rich, even a little strange. What still matters is that the poem is rooted in something real. The best bohemian readings feel free-spirited because the poet is genuinely free-spirited, not because they're trying to be. For more help choosing your reading, check out the Free Resources we have for Resplendants (wedding readers), particularly the video 'Seven Rules You Are Totally Allowed to Break'.

What are the tips to delivering a "bohemian" wedding reading like a pro?

The biggest mistake is to over-rehearse until the spontaneity disappears. These poems want a little breath and wildness in the delivery. That doesn't mean underprepared — know the piece well enough that you can play in it. Make sure you check out the performance tips we have for each poem, and visit the Performance Bootcamp for general tips every Resplendant (wedding reader) can follow.

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