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Wedding readings for mother

A reading that names a mother — the one who raised you, the one you're marrying into, or the one you're carrying with you today — gives the ceremony a second heartbeat. It widens the moment beyond the couple without ever taking it from them.

These are the readings we suggest when a mum has a role in the service, or when you want to honour her from the aisle.

Readings that honour a mother

  1. 01

    For a new beginning

    by John O'Donohue, 1956 ~ 2008

    The delight when your courage kindled and out you stepped onto new ground

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  2. 02

    Gift from the Sea

    by Anne Morrow Lindbergh, 1906 ~ 2001

    The only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom

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  3. 03

    Habitation

    by Margaret Atwood, b. 1939

    With wonder at having survived this far, we are learning to make fire

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  4. 04

    House of Stone

    by Carmen Bugan, b. 1970

    May your tears and your smiles happen always face to face.

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  5. 05

    Learned in Kindergarten

    by Robert Fulghum, b. 1937

    Remember the little seed in the plastic cup? The roots go down and the plant goes up

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  6. 06

    Love, mere love

    by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861

    Let temple burn, or flax and an equal light leaps in the flames from cedar plank or weed. And love is fire.

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  7. 07

    Oh, the places you will go!

    by Dr. Seuss, 1904 ~ 1991

    Things can happen and frequently do, to people as brainy and footsy as you

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  8. 08

    On Love

    by Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931

    Let love be a moving sea between the shores of your souls

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  9. 09

    On marriage

    by Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931

    Be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night

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  10. 10

    The Wedding March

    by Gerard Manley Hopkins, 1844 ~ 1889

    I to him turn with tears, whose wonder-wedlock deals triumph and immortal years

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  11. 11

    Wild Geese

    by Mary Oliver, 1935 ~ 2019

    You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.

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  12. 12

    Zuccini Shofar

    by Sarah Lindsay, b. 1958

    Let living room pianos invite unwashed hands

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Choosing your reading

How many readings should we have?

One or two is typical for a shorter ceremony; three works well if you'd like to give more guests a role. Vary the tone so the ceremony doesn't sit on one note.

Who should read?

Choose people whose voices you love hearing — siblings, close friends, a parent, a chosen family member. Send the reading in advance so they can practise.

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