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Wedding readings for mother

A reading that names a mother — the one who raised you, the one you're marrying into, or the one you're carrying with you today — gives the ceremony a second heartbeat. It widens the moment beyond the couple without ever taking it from them.

These are the readings we suggest when a mum has a role in the service, or when you want to honour her from the aisle.

Readings that honour a mother

  1. 01Portrait of John O'Donohue, 1956 ~ 2008
    For a new beginning
    by John O'Donohue, 1956 ~ 2008
    The delight when your courage kindled and out you stepped onto new ground
    Read the full poem
  2. 02Portrait of Anne Morrow Lindbergh, 1906 ~ 2001
    Gift from the Sea
    by Anne Morrow Lindbergh, 1906 ~ 2001
    The only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom
    Read the full poem
  3. 03Portrait of Margaret Atwood, b. 1939
    Habitation
    by Margaret Atwood, b. 1939
    With wonder at having survived this far, we are learning to make fire
    Read the full poem
  4. 04Portrait of Carmen Bugan, b. 1970
    House of Stone
    by Carmen Bugan, b. 1970
    May your tears and your smiles happen always face to face.
    Read the full poem
  5. 05Portrait of Robert Fulghum, b. 1937
    Learned in Kindergarten
    by Robert Fulghum, b. 1937
    Remember the little seed in the plastic cup? The roots go down and the plant goes up
    Read the full poem
  6. 06Portrait of Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861
    Love, mere love
    by Elizabeth Barrett Browning, 1806 ~ 1861
    Let temple burn, or flax and an equal light leaps in the flames from cedar plank or weed. And love is fire.
    Read the full poem
  7. 07Portrait of Dr. Seuss, 1904 ~ 1991
    Oh, the places you will go!
    by Dr. Seuss, 1904 ~ 1991
    Things can happen and frequently do, to people as brainy and footsy as you
    Read the full poem
  8. 08Portrait of Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    On Love
    by Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    Let love be a moving sea between the shores of your souls
    Read the full poem
  9. 09Portrait of Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    On marriage
    by Kahlil Gibran, 1883 ~ 1931
    Be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night
    Read the full poem
  10. 10Portrait of Gerard Manley Hopkins, 1844 ~ 1889
    The Wedding March
    by Gerard Manley Hopkins, 1844 ~ 1889
    I to him turn with tears, whose wonder-wedlock deals triumph and immortal years
    Read the full poem
  11. 11Portrait of Mary Oliver, 1935 ~ 2019
    Wild Geese
    by Mary Oliver, 1935 ~ 2019
    You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.
    Read the full poem
  12. 12Portrait of Sarah Lindsay, b. 1958
    Zuccini Shofar
    by Sarah Lindsay, b. 1958
    Let living room pianos invite unwashed hands
    Read the full poem

Choosing your reading

How many readings should we have?

One or two is typical for a shorter ceremony; three works well if you'd like to give more guests a role. Vary the tone so the ceremony doesn't sit on one note.

Who should read?

Choose people whose voices you love hearing — siblings, close friends, a parent, a chosen family member. Send the reading in advance so they can practise. Make sure you check out the performance tips we have for each poem, and visit the Performance Bootcamp for general tips every Resplendant (wedding reader) can follow.

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